went shooting with H and S 11 on Saturday. My IC appointment was canceled and my desire to be nicely dressed was shut down by the cold breeze and the fact that it was an outdoor range. Had fun..no issues at all. Came home to get my kids ready for S8 (asoftoday) birthday party. Had fun playing laser tag. H went home to get his books and came back to my house. He was going to watch the boys so I can sleep. As soon as he walked in I went to bed. Got up Sunday went shopping for superbowl snacks and such. H took S17 shooting and I cooked, Anyhoo family came over around 3ish. Right before game H starts rehashing things. I told him I have let the past go and will not go back to visit it and left. Took a bath..calmed myself down..then went down and acted as if It did not bug me. I even helped him with some oil for his ear. He took a ton of leftovers and left. He was talking to my sister telling her that I refused to work and that was what the straw that broke the camel's back. To be honest. I did not refuse to work, I refused to apply for a job in a new state without knowing where we were moving,what school and schedule my boys had, and lastly the schedule H was going to have. He says I did things backwards. Which is why we are so incompatible. Oh and the kicker..the boys can and should walk home by themselves. On the plus..my BIL told me the reason he won't go shooting with H is because he will not reward his bad behavior. He is upset that since separation H has bought about 7 guns while I am working day and nights to make sure the boys are good. It felt nice to know he was on my side. So while all interaction was not great..it was not horrible and things did not escale
