I agree with you when it comes to my family and support. That is where a lot of my anger is from. Because logically I an right and he is saying something is white when it is so black that everyone else sees it except for him. It frustrates me to no ends and makes me question his character and our ability to ever see eye to eye. I go over it a lot partially because I am questioning myself. Am I justified to this anger? Is there something I am overlooking that is making me be unfair to husband? Am I wrong? Am I getting played. Big time? I do try to see how does he present it so that I look like the unfair money grubber?
He kept his savings. I saved nothing because I was part time. He claims to have nothing in his bank accounts. This is the big question and why marriage counselor suggested he had gambling problem. It makes no sense unless he is hiding it. Also he took money out of IRA which I don't understand either. It cost him money to do so.
I had asked him to take the money he saved and put it in account for kids which neither of us could touch. Of course he declined. He said that for all these years I was able to save because he spent the majority of money. (Not true at all once I went to part time) he said he is not transparent with his budget because I was not with mine. (Also not true. In past he had all my passwords to accounts and i kept nothing from him financially) I have no problem showing him my budget. At court he listed that his car plus our insurance and gas costs him 1500 per month. Court didn't even bother to look at our expenses.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
