Mu,

How are you doing? I apologize for not coming sooner - I've always read your posts but don't feel I have much to contribute. After all, I look at you as something of a wise father figure and struggle to feel like I have much to offer you. I'm sorry.

However, I noticed that while you had a relaxing weekend you only mention keeping a PMA (or appearance thereof) without many concrete tasks to actually generate a PMA. With the exception of your welding class do you have many opportunities to explore GAL activities away from your wife? It might help as you try to remain detached from your wife, while simultaneously providing her with a little space.

It's just a thought - can you let me know if I'm making sense?


Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou