Hey Rouky

Ah that's a tricky situation- I think that curiosity would get the better of me
And I would ask although I know it is not the right thing to do. I would advise against it as it also puts your friend in an awkward position.

Maybe you can be honest with your friend and explain how that makes you feel and just agree not to discuss her?

I feel for you as its like the worst thing wanting I know everything about actually the information only hurts you

Sending hugs xxx


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BD 15th Nov 2015- husband left that night
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