Your right MB, by the time I get to the point of confronting her I wouldn't care what the reason was.
However I tend to agree with Flight on the reasoning. I admit that I too was at fault and contributed to my sitch. I have identified what I have realized and work to fix that in myself. I am sure I will see more as time goes on.
She could have come to me and said she is leaving without being with someone else first tho. She said multiple times that we each need to find our own happiness and be an I before a We. So how does she plan on being an I when she never stopped being a We? While I am supposed to figure it out in my own.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
