She also wants to know where I'm going, what I am doing, how I am getting on with my training for the half marathon I have signed up for. I feel she is constantly asking about me and will talk about her day etc even when I don't ask.

For someone that has stated that she is scared of me, feels empty towards me, I find these constant engages somewhat against the grain. I know when I spoke to Chuck, he believes that I have been challenging her core beliefs of her current decision to leave. To watch out for her tests and challenges.