After she came back yesterday we were all out at a parade meeting up with some friends, after which they came back to our home where I had made a gulash soup for everybody. Part of my 180 is to invite friends over more and cook more, try new recipes etc. As the conversation was going on around the table my W looked for me and at me 7 times in about 5 mins. Even one of our friends who knows the situation noticed this. Even later on, she was talking to the kids but actively looking for me and to engage my eye contact with me.
After the kids were in bed, I used the time to catch up with friends, then headed out late to watch some of the Super Bowl, only saying goodnight to her as I left.
This morning the first thing she said to me was to ask if I enjoyed the Super Bowl as she assumed that is where I went, I indicated that I was elsewhere instead. Don't know if that's the right approach but she questions my every move about where I am going.
