Someday I will confront her on all of this. But not until I know that the answers will not hurt anymore, that what I hear will not effect me. I will get to that point. It's not today, but I am a heck of a lot closer than I was yesterday.
By the time you get to that point, you won't care about what her answer would be anymore.
Why the affair? Who knows. Even if you asked her, she probably wouldn't be able to give you an answer that would make any sense to you. She felt like she needed something and chose to get it from someone outside of her marriage. I'm sorry that it happened to you, to me, and to everyone else on this list.
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
