There was a really tough moment on the drive with the boys that I wanted to share as well. S3 asked where we were going for about the 8th time and I explained again that we were going to meet mommy so they could go to her house.

This time he asked me if I was coming too. I asked coming where?
To mommys house too, with us. I told him no I wasn't going to mommys too and he asked me why. I explained that i had to go back to our house in xxxx because that's were I lived with them. He asked if it was because the cat couldn't be alone too. And I said yes to that and had to laugh.

It's selfish but part of me hopes his innocence shakes her sometimes. That he asks her questions like that to make her think.


The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.