The start of my Happiness 3

[Tyler12]

Thank you flight. I have been thinking hard in what you wrote before responding to it. First I thought ok. What was the stresser, unhappiness from my actions and behaviour.

Then that got me thinking of the first part.

Because this person is emotionally weak. They have poor coping skills. Their world view stems from selfishness, immaturity and a sense of entitlement.

I started trying to think of what in her life would cause this. I don't claim to know every single detail of her upbringing though I do know a lot and how she was raised. I fail to see where these qualities would have been instilled.

The point is she has and is this person. Before I met her. This behaviour is something she has to deal with or it will be a cycle for the rest of her life. Her mother saw this and tried to warn her of that. W of course paid no attention to it.

Your post helped me more than understanding why On a psychological level which is what I was looking for. It helped me to accept that if anything is to happen between us again that she needs to accept her faults and deal with them before I will consider a MR. In short. She needs to sort herself before I can put myself in harms way again.