If the boys are safe and cared for, I don't really see a reason she needs to know. Worst case scenario you just need to make sure the person was a trusted one with the boys' best interests and well-being at heart.
M: 8.5 T:10 Me:37 W:34 S:6
Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15 Piecing - 7/4/15 to present