I have admitted to him multiple times that I should have told him before taking him to court. I did agree with that. He said that I could have said to him "give me the 17% or I will take you to court" and he would have given in. I admitted that would have worked better. But at the time I felt unable to confront him.
I should have said something like I understand how hard it was for you e categorized with all those deadbeats in court when you love the kids so much and do provide and I'm sorry it came to that. I had actually textEd him something like that a while ago at your suggestion.
Zues, do you think going on business trip Valentine's Day weekend is suspicious?
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015