When the goal is positivity

[Painter]

Julie, I have had the exact same fear with H - that he's pushing me to work full-time so he can dump me without having to pay as much alimony. I brought it up in counseling and he acted shocked. But he's a good actor...

I just watched a really good TED talk. Since we're not supposed to post links, look for Dan Gilbert talking about the Surprising Science of Happiness. It explains to me why the person who breaks out of a M, acts miserable.