Husband started taking the strong offense against me, after I had questioned his business trip on Valentine's day weekend. He is coming home on Sunday. He said his company aquired another company so they are sending him away. He is not coming home till Sunday because he does not want to take red eye and there is a function.
And we all know why a strong offense is important right???
I am so tempted to confront right now, but I cannot because he is visiting family.
An affair is my boundary. I don't know what else this could be. I want to call and say
" I find it highly suspicious that you are going away on Valentine's day. I find it even more suspicious that when I brought this up you took an offensive position and started attacking me about taking you to court back in December. The only reason I can see you bringing this up to me again was to deflect from Valentine's Day weekend. I suspect that you are just trying to pretend to reconcile so you can get me to return to work full time. I am getting a lawyer".
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015