Wife has filed for divorce

[G8r]

My WW hired a L and said she filed but I haven't received any papers. We are currently living together and I'm becoming proficient at avoiding arguing with her which is bad for at least 2 reasons. It doesn't help me work towards possible R and it is not good for D3 to see.

I know my WW still loves me but she is very angry, hurt and full of resentment towards me right now. The om doesn't help and sshe's got her head in his fog and doesn't see or think logically right now.

I debate whether or not I want to stay with her. My head clearly see that M is over and its time to move forward. Heart disagrees. We met on Eharmony and most of our M and R was good. She went chasing after the missing 10 to 20%. Although I still love her, I don't know if I would be putting in as much effort if we didn't have a D3. I suspect that when I finally throw in towel is when she will want to come back. Already told her that not only would I not be her friend if she gets her wish of D, talking between us will be at the bare minimum to Co parent. I already walk out of the room if it doesn't interfere with what I'm doing if she starts texting with the om.

My coping consists of staying busy with work and being best dad for D3. She needs some sense of stability and sanity. I've returned to the church, joined a support group and go play trivia with friends. I'd like to start yoga because I like to stretch and I figured it's a good place to meet women when I'm ready. What about you?