When the goal is positivity

[JulieH]

So basically he wants to either negotiate a reconciliation which will most likely entail me returning to work more hours or figure out how to proceed with divorce. At least that is how I took it. Will find out more when we talk in person in a few weeks.

I would tell him, I would never proceed with divorce without attorney,

i took a bit of control back and said him lhaving to pay child support and both of us losing time with kids is the Downfall of a divorce. He agreed with that.

I said that he has a lot of anger he needs to get over. (I did not mention my anger)