Hope is not a Strategy- It looks done

[rich4j]

Need some advice on continuing to pursue and push on knowledge of an A

Has denied denied denied and unfortunately I have believed her. But piecing things together and rolling back the clock, it makes more sense now of "I am done" with her past trips and potential long distance EA or PA or both

Kind of getting obsessed about this which is unhealthy and making me nuts. I found some info on some phone number/texts she has been contacting for months (just the # not the info) that insn't her girlfriends in the area.

I feel I need to address this with her. Will it change anything? Not for our relationship. But it may give me some peace in terms of being able to deal with her the next "XXX many years". I don't deal well with liars and this will not let me have any type of relastionship unless I feel I have done all I can to get the truth


Any advice from those who have had to address and get to the truth?