I am starting to see that he really is weirdly controlling. I don't know anyone whose ex husband want's to put in the divorce he will pay for all her bills instead of upping the child support. Makes no sense to me. Yes I want to pay all of her bills for her, but not up the child support please. What the heck.
I asked him "Could you pick up x,y,z for D5 valentines day party on Friday?" I forgot to ask when he was being cranky on the phone and I need to make sure he gets it on his day off tomorrow.
He just texted me: "Yeah, I'll get it.You know you can ask me to do absolutely anything for you. It's not like I don't care about you still crazy. I'm not going to be mean and cut you away or anything."
^ When he says things like this It is SO HARD not to snap on him and really tell him what I think. I responded, Thank you, I'll see you tomorrow. I really do NOT understand why he want's to keep telling me he will do anything for me and is here for me. I just want to tell him what I think but I KNOW it would do nothing but cause a fight.
This is true, at least have the house for right now. I can work on me. I can DB. I can keep moving forward.
