He called me today and was cranky on the phone. He said his parents are letting them stay now as long as he needs to he is no longer moving back in but he wanted to know if 400$ was okay.
Sounds like he sussed in the long term not enough.
I told him I would rather talk in person and he got mad at me. He said that I'm being dumb and I don't listen to him. He said even with the D he is giving me my car and still wants to pay for my car insurance, cell phone, health, on top of the 400$.
Control my lovely one.
Isn't that weird? Is it? How does that even work? Here ex hubby, here are my bills for this month for my health, car, phone, could you pay them please?
As long as you get it paid. Let him think you are so little dumb woman.
I didn't think it would make me sad for him not to move in but it does. I don't know why. I feel like him living with his parents it will push him to start the divorce faster and give me less time to DB with the pressure of his dad.
I think the reverse. The longer you can hold out the better.
I think I am going to do that V. While we are separated and not filed I will tell him that 400$ is going to be okay (MAYBE) if it's just for my gas and groceries but until I GET a job, put the kids in full time to daycare, and SO MANY other factors, I really won't know if it is going to be enough down the road and we have to wait..and I will keep finding reasons to not settle on a number until then I guess.
I love the strategy. Absolutely take your time. You have the gift of time and now you have your home for the immediate future. Long may it last. Work on you.
Terrific work done, great interactions with H. Objective achieved for the interim.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
