I try to just keep in touch once a day. I used to spend lots of time here.
In my family there was the men, ie dad and my brother who could out rate everyone and were allowed to act however they liked.
In dad case he had a few affairs, over time.onky one he was actually caught out for, but the pattern was mum would try to address issues dad would say nope that a lie. Then months of Cold War would follow with him just sleeping off seperate.
In the brothers case he can behave any old how and mum show should tell him look your out of line, doesn't she expects us girls to bow and compromise to his thinking we arent allowed our own point of view.
Me I tend to allow other to have a point of view and in some ways I can see their side too well and will in the nature of compromise offer the compromise, of which xh2 really took advantage off as his w1 just always did it his way. Often there was no real reason not to. He then translated that to the others issues he hit s15 (at the time) as his way is the right way. Sometimes by being an easy going person it leaves us open to being taken advantage of. Being nice being conciliatory doesn't mean laying down and being walked on.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
