I know how you feel Ripe. I do the same things, and desperately want to know where I am in the process. Maybe things will be more clear after official / legal divorce? I am hoping for that, but mine is several months away as far as I can tell.
M 43 W 45 M 10.5 T 15 S 26 D 17 (previous relationships) ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D Confirm affair 1/10/16 W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)
