Roar- it is really hard. I'm mostly trying to get him to drop the issue for now since it makes him very angry to talk about but I also can't keep not talking about it because he brings it up all the time.
V- That is a good idea. I will add a 4th one as well which will be on my OWN. The budget of what I came up with was just for if I lived with my mom. I couldn't even afford a 2-3 bedroom apartment over here where I live without another extra 800-1200$ a month on top of my maybe 1200$ paycheck AND child support.
He thinks because we had a house (really bought cheaply when the market was lower)and all our bills he could afford before that I should be able to be fine but I think he forgets that is with being a SAHM to make sure we didnt need to pay 1200$ in child care and our house payment is only 420$ while an apartment or rental will be 3x that.
Do I just make a spreadsheet and hand it to him with all the different budgets so he can see or is that for me?
