I was thinking for child support-he will not drop telling me he can only give me 400$ a month and no more.
He said we need to talk about it Monday or Tuesday so we can "prepare" for the divorce he doesnt want to go to get a divorce and have me complaining about what he can afford and he doesn't want to pay 1000$ and loose everything he has either.
I DON'T want to talk about court or lawyers or anything because that is when he flips out and yells and shuts down and says I'm trying to ** him over.
Id like to say- yes wah's name I think 400$ is good child support WHILE separated and while you are still paying for everything.
That being said if I get a job for 10$ an hour as a cna after taxes I will bring home around 1200-1300$. You would like for me to cover child care, which is fine while we are separated since I have no other bills.
Child care is 1150$ a month and i'd have enough for gas and the 400$ would be enough to cover the kids expenses and food.
When-if we proceed with the D though I will be negative hundreds of dollars. I will need my own car insurance, gas, food, items for kids, health insurance, etc and still paying for all of the child care I will not be able to do that.
How about we figure out that later when I do have a job, and see how much it will cost in gas, and other expenses and figure that out at a later time but if you would like to start giving me the 400$ now I will gladly accept it.
For the moving in this is all I got: I would like to be able to make this situation the best for both of us. I want to stay in the MBR and if you would want you can stay in there with me with boundaries on what will or will not happen or we can set you up a room across the house in the toy room and rearrange everything.
I will glady still leave on ONE of your days off like we have been doing so you can have that alone time and quality time with the kids since we will be together the rest of the week.
