I hear you and feel your pain excile101. I have a D3 so I will have to communicate with my WW as well. Although I haven't been as good of a husband as I should have been, being a dad has not been an issue. I also feel your dilemma. Communication was a big issue for my M as well and I will need to communicate with WW. I won't be cold but I'm not planning on being overly friendly either. It's a fine line to walk and I'm still trying to figure out where it's at.
Me:44 W:38 T:10.5 M:7.5 D:3 BD: 7/2015 W moves out of MBR: 9/2015 WW files for D: 2/8/2016