That's my problem. I know that just being her friend is not what you or I want but it's the only option available. What is the alternative? Not communicate again? I have two young kids and my w and I will have to speak often for their sake. I am worried that if I leave a void in her life, it will be filled by another guy and I will be just be on the sideline for when she needs me.

Michelle must have encountered this kind of situation and have a possible solution on how to deal with it? It's easy for others to say detach and GAL but when your family is your life and you have always put them first you are fighting against everything you know.


I gotta keep breathing. Because tomorrow the sun will rise. Who knows what the tide could bring?