Hurricane Rising

[NateG79]

Sorry I've been away for awhile. Been lurking, but have somewhat stayed away from the forums as to not get myself wound up on false hopes. As things go, I've had a coaching this last week. My coach did not admonish me for filing for D. She still said there were opportunities for DB'ing even though I don't necessarily see it. She said with the filing in place, it takes the pressure off WW that I'm trying to save the marriage, so we can effectively come to agreements about co-parenting. I still have my D2 the bulk of the time, with WW setting her on the weekends.

We had a hiccup with our babysitter as her live in sister had started letting her oldest son live there with them for now. He's bad news and the W and I discussed alternative solutions to letting D2 continue to be watched at babysitters house.

I've been pretty busy with work and friends, and spending time with my little girl. She recently learned her abc's and some nursery rhymes, so we've been singing that, and playing with all her new toys.

As for the Ww,I know she's been going out a bit more, as I can see on our old joint account that she has gone to some bars a few times this week when she didn't have D2.I still feel that there's some OM involved, but have no proof as we are basically NC except stuff about the daughter. She still has not brought up that I filed, or mentioned anything she wants out of it. For all intents and purposes that I can tell, she's fine. Either distracting herself by going out, or spending time with an OP. A very weird place to be. It almost feels like she's ignoring it, or pretending it didn't happen. Hard to say. Still feels like limbo.