Don't give up. Keep posting. The weekends are a little slow around here, so you can use it to read the links Cadet gave you, and the Divorce Remedy book.
Can you give us more information about your marital past? Why did your first M end? How long between first M ending before you started seeing current W? Any history of infidelity?
Never got married to my first child's mother. We were together for five years.
Started dating current wife 4 yrs. after my sons mother and I split up.
No infidelity on either side that I know of. Current wife says that I've not been there for her emotional for at least a couple years. I've got a feeling that she may be emotionally involved with someone at her work, but I've got no proof. She's on her phone non stop and guards it like gold. Also her brother who was only 48 had a heart attack 3 months prior to the BD'ing. I kinda of believe his death may have triggered a midlife crisis scenario, from the way she's behaving.
Me-LBH, 44 Spouse-WAW, 41 Married for 9 years S, 7 S, 5 BD - November 20th 2015
