Don't give up. Keep posting. The weekends are a little slow around here, so you can use it to read the links Cadet gave you, and the Divorce Remedy book.
Can you give us more information about your marital past? Why did your first M end? How long between first M ending before you started seeing current W? Any history of infidelity?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
