I'm not sure what I want yet. He hasnt told me what he wants so I'm curious.

I worry he will say EVERY night he is off I NEED to leave vs just when he keeps the kids overnight which is once a week or so.

I'm not willing to leave for 2-3 days a week. I guess I need to ask him how he expects this to work if he comes and then really think about what I want.

I worry I wont be able to GAL or do anything when he comes but then again I'm 24, and he as you said fired me as his wife so even if I put the kids to sleep there is no reason for me not to be able to GAL after. They go to sleep at 7:30-8pm.

I worry he will expect me to do EVERYTHING like I USED to. Clean, cook, get his uniform ready,pack his meals, make him coffee, pick up his dry cleaning etc whatever.

I will look for keyloggers. I'll do that today. My phone has a password he won't know but the computer doesnt.

He is getting very predictable as well. I can tell my mom or sister he will call or text by x time and if he doesnt he will show up physically by x time and I'm 90% right. Along with at least 2-3 x a week he likes to surprise me by showing up at someones house I'm at to see the kids( sometimes I feel its to see if Im lying)

I have never lied but sometimes he makes me want to park my car behind the privacy fence in the backyard to see what would happen. Probably wouldnt be smart idea though.


Me:24 H:26
T:7yrs M:4yrs
S:4 D:5
ILYBNILWY 12/5
PA Confirmed 2/19