I think you should do that which works for you.

If it's hard to enforce boundaries then do so. Your choice and you can change your mind.

Also if you are receiving the same message from several places then consider the opinion carefully. What is your"gut feel? Is that which you are doing working for you? Can you cope with WH back in your space?"

Further do you think WH returning home is a strategy to remove you from the house?

Take extreme care and be safe.

You can say "I am unsure about you living here in the same house"

And "what alternatives are there WH."

I wish to delay this until I feel ready.

Check your phone, tablet and computer for keyloggers and monitoring of your whereabouts too.

Keep on checking as well over time that you have your space, freedom etc.

This man sacked you as his W, he wanted you to go home, to have no resources, to control your destiny.

Care. You have come a long way in knowing your sitch, you are GAL. I as a supporter for you want to see this continue.

Hugs

V


Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW