Red

Do that which you want to do to establish your boundaries.

It strikes me that you should not leave the MB. I did and I chose that sleep arrangement you mentioned as it gave me some boundary.

I think it was a mistake, I should not have left the MBR. Still I did it for the peace it gave me.

Also be aware that your WH moving back may be to reassert control if he thinks he is losing it.

Just my observation

V


Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW