It has come to my attention that Mr. Fantastic's girlfriend is very likely sleeping around on him. The person who let me know this is in a position to document. (She is single and had a run in with the gf at a bar when she was flirting with someone -- the gf made a point of commenting on how much "fun" she'd had with him... This led to bad feelings and now my friend is attentive when she runs into the gf, which is frequently.)
Should I let Mr. Fantastic know about it if evidence turns up or should I let him find out the hard way? He spends half of every one of his weekends with the kids with this woman and her kids, to the point that mine are starting to think of hers as step-siblings. Also he's under contract on a house that's equivalent to the one he and I jointly owned before the divorce and the general opinion of my acquaintances is that he intends to move her straight from living with her husband into the new house. I try to stay silent on the subject but my kids are involved.
I feel like I should just stay out of it, since Mr. Fantastic is clearly making bad decision after bad decision and the kids WILL be impacted by it regardless of my involvement. On the other hand, to let him walk into a minefield without raising a warning feels cruel and almost vengeful.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
