Thanks. My STBXH has been having his A secretly for 2 years and now it has been in the open for 1 year, and I still don't see any change from him. I'll carry on BD and I'll see what my options are when he files!
Rouky...I'm not trying to convince you either way. It's just that you sound so down that I wanted to share that with you. And Mona said she DBed for 3 years while her H left the state and lived with and had a child with ow. But they ended up back together. So I was just wanting to show you the other side. Please don't think I'm trying to push you into standing. I'm not, scouts honor.
I'm sorry you're going through all of this and that H is making you feel this way Rouky. Truly, I am.
Rain (moi): 40 Ex Fiance: 39 3 kids On/off again EA & PA Last BD by ow 12/15 Moved kids and myself back into our own place: 12/15
Also Rouky I will venture a guess here and say the 2 years of A that were hidden don't count as they were in the fog and excitement of it all being clandestine and all the other A stuff. When real life starts to infiltrate the APs is when it seems to be the beginning of the end. Just my .02 cents.
Rain (moi): 40 Ex Fiance: 39 3 kids On/off again EA & PA Last BD by ow 12/15 Moved kids and myself back into our own place: 12/15
Ai hope you're right Rain. Real life is not nearly as exciting as the shiny new penny of affair fog, to mix metaphors...
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
So he just showed up so he could use his phone in your bathroom? That's smart.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
