Hi Rain, just been catching up on your thread. Phew! Your XF really knows how to do crazy! It is so cruel how they mess with our heads blowing hot and cold. You are handling things brilliantly with him and then venting on here. I agree with the others about him having met someone. I think he wasn't getting a reaction with his 'crazy' texting when he was out and maybe it was a 180 for you to not react and be all conciliatory in reply so that made him have to up the stakes a notch and try something else - making you jealous. Crazy! I don't know how you keep doing this, you are one strong lady!