Hi Rednail, sounds like you had a good time. Bless you, you were so strong during that phone call! I really don't think you should move out of the family home with your children. I know you're not getting L advice at the moment but I know they would tell you not to. When I DBd my M 9 years ago my H ended up coming home to R. I know it's not the same thing as this situation of your H moving back in, but, my H was very cautious about moving in and didn't want to share a bedroom etc. My S was on the verge of moving into a bed from a cot at the time so what we did was buy an adult bed for his bedroom. H slept in it while S stayed in the cot a little while longer. Then gradually H warmed up to the idea of sleeping in same bed again. Do you have a single bed that H could sleep in and one of the children sleep in with you? I know it isn't ideal but better than moving out and uprooting the children when you are all already going through turmoil.
