It's not that you act like you don't care. It's part of being "lovingly detached". Your wife can go an visit with or without your permission or concerns. Let her do so.

I'm going to tell you from my own personal experience, you cannot compete with an OM/AP until you've made significant, consistent, and noticeable changes.

Rednail nailed it (*giggle*) when she said:
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Having my WAH go out overnight to god knows where with who knows and ME HAVING NO IDEA. I JUST SMILE and say have fun. BYE!
PMA and distancing instead of overly concerned and pursuing.

Oh! And do not, I repeat, do not bring her family into it. That's dangerous territory.

M: 8.5 T:10
Me:37 W:34 S:6

Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15
Piecing - 7/4/15 to present