I debate the same thing though I want to reach out to her best friend. Ever since my WW texted me with "I keep having dreams about you every night", I really want to get an idea about what is going on that head. It is very very hard to resist the urge.
I think we both know it is the wrong move. They will tell our WW's about the convo without a doubt. No matter what we hear in response, it will be bad. If we hear something positive, our expectations will grow. If we hear something bad, we will not feel very good.
I hear you about the urge though. It is hard to resist it but I think it is best.
