Hey me too! With us being on the road, I'm just going to let him decide his deal but set boundaries if needed. I think it'll be harder but it'll also keep us accountable to our changes because while they are for us, it's easier to keep it up when there are watchful eyes. Once it's a real habit, we're golden.
This is my problem too - over planning. Girl, we gotta take it one day at a time. See what's really going on. Be observant, be firm, and be confident in OUR decisions (self pep talk before H comes home lol). Our journey is separate from theirs and we can and will be better in the end either way.
I was just popping in to say, I hope you have a fabulous night out with your sister!!
