my wife requests space, deattached from me

[WillDo]

It goes one way or the other. Maybe this is as much as it gets. I don't know what I can say to avoid a temporary seperation. She tells me the last 2 years how it should have always been but adds that I am not doing anything just me being there causes issues. Again I feel I am faced with a hidden agenda. One thing is though I said out loud that she is having an affair. She told me she had never betrayed me. what did she say yes she would want a relationship with OM. I knew more but disnt want to confront. We all are keeping lies. What a world!