Thanks Rain. The only thing STBXH told me was that he respected me as the mother of his children, no mentioned of love! I guess I can't make someone who doesn't love, loves me!
((((Rouky))))
Hey if you want...I can go have a nice little "talk" with your H. But truly NYGal is right. You just can't believe anything they say, especially in the fog. And the fog lasts different amounts of time for different people.
Wouldn't it be nice if it was a set time? Hey DBers don't worry just GAL and live a great life as your walk away or wayward spouse will be back in full remorse mode ready to create a deeper and more meaningful R is 18 months 3 weeks and 1 day.
When I look back from the start of PA to now I have been on this rollercoaster for almost 2 years and 3 months. And NOW is when I am hearing things I longed to hear. And even still his actions are not so much matching those words.
So like I said before, if my situation is any indication of how things phase in and out and you Rouky, want to move on while standing for a while longer, your Hs A is likely to fizzle and he just may find his way home.
