Hey NYG.....the boundaries kind of came organically since he was pretty upfront about what he is willing and not willing to do and give if we R.

And yeah, kind of strange that finding peace with our situations and moving on is our best shot at R with them. But at that point will we want to?

The answer to that scares me.

And thanks....now all I have to do is decide on those goals and all the steps to get to them. Easy breezy. smile

I hope you had a nice coffee group and also that you guys have a great time tonight. It's good to have that support in real life too.