LBH w/ a WXW after the D - now what

[trumpet]

gs9 - I'm looking really hard at myself right now, and the damage I did in the marriage - the years of me being proud and stubborn and not seeing how my wife wanted to be 'safe'. My addiction, my anger got in the way.

gs9 - think about the way you can always keep your feet below you. If you're thinking of her, you leaned on her. You had her as a crutch for you. How can you stand, confident and ready for anything?

I think you remodeling the house is just awesome. Playing with D4, being a great dad. You're headed in the right direction. I bet in a month from now, with good activity, good positive thinking, you'll have way less of the negative swings. I see that in my life as well.