Rain, I don't quite understand. I know your XF isn't the same now, and I also know that you being aloof is the best thing you can do for yourself and for your R. You have good boundaries, I guess. It's ironic because it seems that our best chance of reconciling is to not care anymore. That's so bizarre to me!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat