Usually the affair partner is not of the best character
Whats most important is keeping your son safe..the OM has no real connection to your son and due to his drug addiction probably lacks empathy and care I would keep son away from him
I was very leary about OW having contact with my kids..I probably would have, but God protected me and took XH out of state b4 she ever met them
They never met her Maybe I made a big fuss but I had a bad sense and I though she was an active addict To this day my XH family will not have contact with him while he is with OW (wife) they say she is crazy and controls him
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow