I already feel like most of those things already- this is totally on him. He cheated, not me. I do not blame myself, yes we had issues but nothing excuses this behaviour . Do you have children? It's so tough for them asking me where daddy is when is he coming home? 😢He does see them regularly but obviously it's not the same! Anyway they are what is getting me through too, I've got to! It just also makes what he has done so much worse, our daughter was 7 months old when he started his affair and 9 months old when he left, just despicable
Me 35 H 38 Married 4 years together 13 years Affair started sept 2015 BD 15th Nov 2015- husband left that night son age 3 daughter age 1
