And I can't figure out for myself if I continue to push for the truth and try to uncover any type of EA/PA will it hurt more or less or will I be relieved?

She comes from a family who have cheated and I feel she just doesn't want this to be going around to my/her friends if she admitted to it

Another frustrating part of this entire life changing event.


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Me-48
Spouse-WAW 52
Married for 10 years
D7
ILYBNILWY 7/15
Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial
She files 1/2016
Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....