Wife is in love with another man

[shreeve]

Well, she finally showed up to pick up the pups about an hour ago. Kept asking questions about how I'm losing weight and where I go to the gym. I was polite and gave brief answers. She then went on to lay on my bed and play with the dogs, then wanted to talk about her work. She seemed to need some encouragement about feeling uneasy with the OB patients, so I gave her some encouraging words. She never brought up the refinance or divorce, and I didn't initiate any conversation on any topic. Just remained considerate, she would say she needs to go but then kept sitting around not going. Finally I helped carry some things to her car and said have a nice weekend and shut her door. I think the non-hugging interaction works a bit better for me emotionally right now. Not that she initiated that, but I am always sure not to initiate contact as well. Well, off to my awesome day, I'll update soon.