Need help. WW is being nice and wants us to talk about finances and splitting bills for this month. I know I have to do this. How do I do it with a smile on my face? I'm dying inside and I just want to crawl in a whole and hide.
Don't misinterpret her niceness to be anything other than manipulation.
LBH'S are the softest group of live bodies I have ever seen. I suppose it's b/c they still have feelings for their WW and continue looking for the tiniest sign that the old W is showing through this horrible woman who has taken her place. So, when she changes her act from a witch to being nice, he falls for it, and her plan works. He melts into a puddle and she walks away with what she wants, leaving him bare.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!