Thanks Tyler12. Although my WW is still pushing for D, I'm still standing my ground, you're right. Difference is that I'm talking about it less and less. She knows exactly how I feel.
The past week has been the best in a long time. Our last argument was last Sunday. She got upset because I told her the D was solely her choice and I'm getting better at ignoring her spew (but not her) and walking away when I need to in order to avoid arguing. Even last Sunday, I didn't really argue with her. Just reiterated one time that it was her choice Nad dropped the topic like it was hot.
I sent to a support group for separated and divorced people at the church on Thursday. Almost didn't go because WW opened up to me a bit so I listened and validated. Probably the 1st time I was able to do that without mentioning hope for a future together. Interestingly, WW thought I was going out on another date. Nope, not even thinking about dating but I'm not going to correct her. She'll think what she wants no matter what I say.
Had a good time playing trivia with friends last night.
So fsr, so good today. Will be going to Disney on Ice in just a bit with D3 and WW. Here's my chance to shine, to show her that I'm a husband and father that only a fool would leave.
Me:44 W:38 T:10.5 M:7.5 D:3 BD: 7/2015 W moves out of MBR: 9/2015 WW files for D: 2/8/2016