Wife is in love with another man

[shreeve]

Had a nice time out with friends last night, some mutual female friends were actually hitting on my since I'm soon to be (or kind of already am) single. That was weird, didn't expect that from mutual friends. WW was supposed to pick up dogs last night but made a lot of excuses and didn't pick them up. Said she would pick them up this morning but never showed. Point is, it is identical to the behavior she exhibited when she was on drugs. Very inconsiderate, not following through with plans, unreliable etc. Still letting her initiate contact, but just bring back some memories from 14 years ago or so, when her addiction was priority over everything else. I guess being addicted to a person isn't as bad as being addicted by drugs though. Just brought back some memories of why I left her way back when. When I left then, she had feelings for me though, and it got her into AA & NA. No such possibility this time around. Just thought it was interesting to see the same behaviors from years ago. Any thoughts on that? Anyone have similar sitch? I think it might help me move along a bit quicker, as I felt pretty good getting out of that situation in the past.

I'm off to meet some buddies for lunch, then off to a superbowl party. Feeling good and keeping busy. Weight loss is kind of stuck for the last few days, lose 3 gain 2 etc. Might have to pick up the # of days I visit the gym.